Because every one and every situation is different. Yes there are always similarities, but no two are the same.

What I can tell you is that LBS going through one of those two extremes always thinks the other way would be better. The grass isn't always greener.

Also, this friend has no idea that he is talking about. I'm sure he is trying to be supportive, but you can't judge a LBS based on the actions of a WAS. Yes some of us were terrible spouses, but there are lots of good spouses whose spouse cheated on them and left them.

Bottom line is her reasons for leaving aren't important. What Jq does from this point forward is!!

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018