Originally Posted by Dink
so after affair discovery why do you guys feel that the LBS always seems to be the one so damaged and depressed ?

Bur the one caught having the affair appears to be fine for the most part? And in your experience, when do you feel the WW or WH starting showing regret or second thoughts about wanting to leave after affair discovery and maybe want to reconcile , or if they do at all?

Dink - I just started dealing with my sitch little over 3 month ago. I would not count on WW to comeback to her senses anytime soon or she will have any regret. I am listening to the Vets here. What I gathered here, some stay strong and R or at least waiting for the opportunity to do so. From my understanding when WW comes back to her senses in number of years (at least 2 but highly likely 5+) it will be a different person, PLEASE Vets correct me if I am wrong? It’s a big gamble if that’s a case….

Last edited by Jq25; 04/05/22 06:14 PM. Reason: Change