Friend came to town who was supportive through last couple weeks. We went out for dinner, he had extremely similar situation to mine about 10 years ago. His wife had an affair for over a year with a co-worker, then his wife told him about OM and asked for divorce. Sad 😢 He did everything differently, chasing her, buying u name it. He really tried to win her hart back, no luck. It was going on for years - then took him years to get back to be OK and move ON. He said he was taking his time because of kids. His ex is still married to AP to this day and STILL insane psycho, still talking sick about him.
He said, based on how fast my ex wife moved on to spend her life with OM, moved out and divorce me, she really hated my guts and I was a horrible husband. THIS really hurt me, really did.
Why some WAS eating cake and stay with S and OM, some just leave and keep AP secret?
