Dink I just want to say I know how you feel and huge respect for telling the kids the way you did.
That there is true strength and taking responsibility for the situation you are in.

Hit the gym! For me, always the best way to handle the mixed soup of emotions.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021