I'd like to lend aid to newcomers and lurkers. I was not ready just a little while ago, however I think generalized advice will help.
That is how I started my "quotes threads". Anything that appeared to be "high quality general advise" I would grab and put a link to the source.
We have no idea how many "Crabs" we help,but I am sure there have been some in the past and many more in the future that read the wise words here without any of us knowing the effects they have.
I heard this recently (Forget the source): "Planting a tree now gives shade to people in the future"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712