Wow AnnKay… just wow. He won’t be “allowed” to “help out” with his own child? She’s an immature b^tch and he’s a man child. Sorry…not helpful but that’s beyond ridiculous. What a desperate woman she must be to want to be with a guy who has a pregnant wife and a three year-old and then feel so threatened she wants to prevent him from seeing his kids. Some people have no shame whatsoever. Rest assured… both of them have first class seat reservations on the karma bus!! In the meantime, however, this is just the level of sh*tty behaviour you are going to be dealing with. BTW… I’d save that text in case he decides to contest custody. I don’t know if it would make a difference but it definitely shows his mindset when it comes to looking after his own child. He’s sees himself as a babysitter who needs to ask his mom if he’s allowed to take a job. Yes…you would be smart to expect the worst.
I agree with others. Tell him you need to FaceTime with your son and have him hand him the phone.
So sorry you are going through this at this time in your life AnnKay. Big (((HUGS)))
