AnnKay, No contact does not apply to your children. You should be able to have contact with your son during the extended quarantine. I'd recommend calling or video chatting with him regularly during the week. You don't need to have a discussion with your husband, just have him hand the phone over to your son.
Thank you, BL42. Yes I might try that. The "you do realise that it is going to mean it is very unlikely I will ever be allowed to help with anything again ever?" is a bit worrying though. It is a threat but it also just shows how much of a stupid situation he has found himself with OW, which only suggests when it comes to divorce settlement I can only expect the worse from him.
