A bit of recap. Married 8 years, dated 4 years prior, 1 son 3 years old and currently pregnant. H admitted PA about 10 months ago, and tried to make it work for 2 months before he left because he wanted to be with AP. H ended up living with OW. Found out I was pregnant and he came back 3 months after. After 3 months of 'reconciling' and 'recommitting' H said he could not forget the OW and want to live with her. OW went crazy over an instagram post I made and we went through 1 month with no contact. After that H came to help out but still living with OW. Now he is mostly ok about helping out to pick up and drop off son and does visits one day on the weekend when I spend time with my friends. H was recently covid positive when he is at our home staying with our son and therefore needs to isolate for 7 days and I had the Obgyn's orders to stay away from them, so I have been staying at a friend's. H was furious though, as he wants (or have been told to) stay with OW. He texted and said "you do realise that it is going to mean it is very unlikely I will ever be allowed to help with anything again ever?" He has not contacted me since then and I have not heard about my son either. I'm a little worried about what is happening with my son, but I do realise it is partly the need to control the situation from me, but I'm unsure whether I should check if my son is ok with him. Help! Need advice, please.
