Need advice please (2)

[Ready2Change]

As others have said, you are talking way way to much with her right now. All you decisions are based off fear and emotions and not logic.

Every time you engage in a conversation with her, her attraction will lessen. Is that your goal?

Let phone calls go to voice mail. Listen to it on your own time. Use EMAIL as your primary mod of communication. Keep it about "Business only" filter out all of the emotional.

Write emails to her. The send this text "I sent you an Email"

This is a good email to send her first:
"W, with all that is going on, I believe it is best if we communicate via email from this point forward"

That is YOUR BOUNDARY. she can call and text you all day long. You only send her emails. Then the text "I sent you an email"


I have a bankers box full of all the communication I had with my X. I have all our agreements. I had all the time in the world to read and process hers as well as draft up mine, let it sit. Edit it. Let it sit. Then send when I was ready.

You have it soo much easier that your kids are out of the house.