I think im just going to tell them tomorrow by myself. Question I have the all live within a mile of each other do I contact them all in advance so I know they are available or what exactly . I haven’t told the wife im doing this. The last time I talked to her when she came home from my sons house On Tuesday night and called me and said we need to tell them, and I said ok .she said do you want to together or separate and I said whatever and she said ok bye. I haven’t heard from her since.
I had sent a text in our group chat asking if there was anything anybody still needed out of the house before taking stuff to good will. All kids responded and said no, and wife responded not to take the old sewing machine, I responded ok. I did the ask my oldest son in group message if he still had my ladder and paint gun, because I need it for working on house. He said he did, so I said I might come over tomorrow to get it, and I figured I can also see my first grandchild who I haven’t seen in a bit, may help my mood. Shortly after that she tried to call me but I did not answer. I fugured I would start with my oldest first tomorrow when I am there. Then tried to get a hold of my other son and daughter to meet with them. But my concern is they. Ought not be available. I appreciate any feed back on how to handle this.
