Most of the LBS here were also married to morons. We feel your pain. It must make you feel so exasperated. The problem here is that you have unreasonable expectations of his behaviour. For example - ABC is the situation, a normal person would do DEF, but he’s doing XYZ, what the hell is wrong with him? If you expect crappy, non-sensical and inflammatory behaviour at each turn, you’ll find it much easier to deal with.
Haha thank you, Kind18. What an interesting point. This sounds like how I should like the right way to think about his actions.
Originally Posted by Kind18
There’s nothing else to say. You have made your feelings and boundary clear, and that’s all you have to do. Why change your position just because he can’t put his big boy pants on and just deal with it?
Forget about it and move on.
He texted again saying that my son does not have covid, so surely the best thing is for me to come back and he can isolate somewhere else. What an idiot.
I am going to text him saying that my son has symptoms, so even if he does not test positive now, he might do later. I think it is unreasonable to be risking my health and the baby by exposing myself to known risks. Again, in isolation you cannot leave where you are staying for 7 days.
Any thoughts anyone?
I know why he is like this, it is because OW is pressuring him to go. I am also a little afraid that she might end up coming into the apartment and therefore meeting my son prematurely.
