I swear I am married to a moron. Even with his covid diagnosis and illness, he still manages to be unreasonable.
Most of the LBS here were also married to morons. We feel your pain. It must make you feel so exasperated. The problem here is that you have unreasonable expectations of his behaviour. For example - ABC is the situation, a normal person would do DEF, but he’s doing XYZ, what the hell is wrong with him?
The problem with this thinking is it keeps bringing you down. These walkaway spouses are in absolute turmoil. If you expect crappy, non-sensical and inflammatory behaviour at each turn, you’ll find it much easier to deal with. It is going to continue for some time, and the quickest path past it is to drastically change your expectations.
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I only texted him back reitirating my last text about the Obgyn. I do not know what else I should say to him.
There’s nothing else to say. You have made your feelings and boundary clear, and that’s all you have to do. Why change your position just because he can’t put his big boy pants on and just deal with it?
