I hear you KML. I’ve met a number of guys who don’t have their sh*t together financially and seem surprisingly unconcerned about it. XH1 has some assets and an incredible work ethic so I’m not too worried about him in that regard. Not that I even need to at this stage…lol. It is just as likely I go for my visit, realize that the feelings I once had for him are long gone and we just have a nice trip down memory lane and nothing more. I’m leaning towards that outcome, TBH, but am also aware that stranger things have happened so I never say never…lol.