Option B - Give zero fks why she left, wish her and OM all the best and accept it is what it is. Be so busy having fun and living a great life and go smash the gym. Imagine sunglasses on, windows down, heavy metal rock pumping, as you drive away in the opposite direction.
I don't think this is mutually exclusive. You should work on giving zero fks, having fun, and living a great life regardless of whether or not you try to end the affair by exposing it.
Originally Posted by Jq25
She have seen me fit - athletic with 6 pack - and then over the years I turned into a pregnant fat dude.
"Letting things go" is fairly common, but perhaps you should turn yourself back into the athletic 6 pack dude for yourself. As a byproduct, I bet it won't hurt your W's (or other women's) attraction to you.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
