Option A - Expose her affair as an attempt to force her back/make you feel better/manipulate what others think
Option B - Give zero fks why she left, wish her and OM all the best and accept it is what it is. Be so busy having fun and living a great life and go smash the gym. Imagine sunglasses on, windows down, heavy metal rock pumping, as you drive away in the opposite direction.
Which of those is a boss move? (And by extension, is likely to come across as attractive)?
I would say driving away in the opposite direction! Am I right? I don’t think going to the gym will do anything, physical changes don’t influence much, we been together for over a decade. She have seen me fit - athletic with 6 pack - and then over the years I turned into a pregnant fat dude.