Even if they deny this motivation, most LBS try to expose affairs because they think it has a chance of getting their spouse to come back or start “waking up.”
It never, EVER does.
The other reason you don’t go exposing her affair, is because DB principles say you focus on YOU.
Option A - Expose her affair as an attempt to force her back/make you feel better/manipulate what others think
Option B - Give zero fks why she left, wish her and OM all the best and accept it is what it is. Be so busy having fun and living a great life and go smash the gym. Imagine sunglasses on, windows down, heavy metal rock pumping, as you drive away in the opposite direction.
Which of those is a boss move? (And by extension, is likely to come across as attractive)?
