It's ironic, we accuse the WAS of "having their cake and eating it too." I think I sort of was that way toward the end...LOL... Didn't laundry for H or have to clean up after him, I could decorate my apartment any way I wanted... I didn't have to "play the wife" but I got all of the benefits of it.
We're moving back together sloooowly. H and I are no longer officially seperated, but he is going to be "living" with his mom, I am getting a new place close to her house, and I think he will be over more. I think the easing back in is a good idea, to keep us both from being shell-shocked. One step at a time...
