What do you suggest if I tell them by myself that I say to the kids
"Your mom and I have decided to split up."
Avoid details. Do not out her A. Keep it simple and direct. "We still care about each other, but feel this is for the best. We love you guys very much and will try to keep the impact to your families to a minimum."
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
