So I had put in for this next week of starting tomorrow until next Saturday at work thinking we were going on spring break
Why are you letting her dictate if you go or not? I would strongly suggest you consider going away for at least part of your break. Most new LBS would give me a list of excuses... Don't be like most newbies.
R2C makes a great point. Why not go on vacation anyway? The power move would've been to cancel her ticket (if she didn't want to go) but keep yours and enjoy yourself regardless.
The key in a lot of these situations is for the LBS to flip the position of power. Project strength, not weakness. Act as if. My IC talked about reclaiming my power/strength. I didn't get it at first, but understand it much better now.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
