Originally Posted by Dink
It’s a process.
Indeed! My IC said that exact phrase to me several times.

You'll get there Dink. No one's perfect at this, especially at the beginning, and we tend to give the strongest feedback on the areas we perceive to be the weakness - glad you're accepting it with an open mind.

Originally Posted by SteveLW
Originally Posted by Dink
What if she contacts me to say she will come help get the house ready to put up for sale?
"I would prefer to do the prep myself."
SteveLW's proposed response nails it. Great way to answer.

Last edited by BL42; 03/31/22 03:37 PM.
Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21