So I had put in for this next week of starting tomorrow until next Saturday at work thinking we were going on spring break,(the trip I have discussed previously) and when she said she wasn’t ready for vow renewals ext. I still plan on being off that week, it will give me time to work on the house and just focus on me and doing some things. The question I have is this, how should I handle this scenario…..She is off starting tomorrow as well until the following Sunday for spring break, she is a school teacher. What if she contacts me to say she will come help get the house ready to put up for sale?
"I would prefer to do the prep myself."
If she pushes it, just keep repeating "I would prefer to do the prep myself."
REmember, though, you cannot control her. She may show up anyway. When I was dealing with my WW I kept a copy of Sandi's rules on my phone. I read them multiple times a day. I referred to them when I had to interact with her. Keep things business like. Concentrate on sandi's words about treating her like the cashier at the store. Do not overshare. Listen, validate. End discussions by staying busy.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
