May - that's really great perspective and something I'll keep in mind and be sensitive to. Both of my kids go to Catholic schools and I'm not sure what they teach on Annulments. I do know that it is taught that if you do not have annulments, the church sees you as still married, and therefore any other relationships you are in are technically adultery, so pick your poison I guess. My brother's wife's mom got an annulment and she got remarried. Her dad had left them and was a degenerate.
