A wise man on these forums once said something along the lines of DBing can take years. Some people have to go through the D, feel the loss and spend several years apart before reconnecting.

It can happen. If its right you for, go for it. Take the time to understand the feelings, if its worth it, if its what you want, if its a fantasy. Not all Ds ended in a crash and burn and reconnection may be possible. Up to you both and your sitch. If nothing happens, based on the feelings you have now, it sounds like you've reached forgiveness, which must be a wonderful thing.


H37, W37
D4, S2
ILYBNILWY 9/19
BD 9/19
EA discovered 10/19
Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated