There could be multiple reasons she keeps contacting you D. Easing her guilt, trying to keep you as plan b, etc…. I know it is difficult but you really need to stop trying to figure it out. I promise you that she’s not doing it because she is wanting to get back together. If that was the reason, you would know it.
I’m not a big proponent of waiting 24 hours to respond to questions. That feels disingenuous to me. I agree with others that you shouldn’t respond to texts that aren’t questions and when you do answer, use as few words as possible. Go as dark as you can. Not to punish her but to make things easier on yourself.I know in my case, the less contact I had with XH, the better I felt. It got easier to do over time. (((HUGS)))
