To give you an idea of how solid our friendship was at the time. After we separated, we used to meet once a week for lunch at our favourite restaurant. We did that for two years. When I decided to move back to the island, we divorced as it seemed like the right time. The week I was to move, we went for our weekly lunch and the staff gave us balloons and a dessert to celebrate “our” move. When I explained to them that it was only me who was moving, they were shocked. They had no idea we weren’t married still. Honestly…there were no big issues. We barely ever fought. I just wasn’t willing to be second fiddle to his drum set any more because I wanted to buy a house, start a family, etc…. I knew that would make him miserable considering what his goals/dreams were at that time. He has a very different mindset now. Had he been that way all those years ago, it is very possible we would still be together. But…again…I have NO clue how I will feel about him when I see him and vice versa. It’s just a random question that has been on my mind since that dream…lol.
