Boy, how do you keep up with him? He is all over the place. You really are good.
My H also hates to be chased, but loves to chase. It's hard sometimes. I do know I have gotten some of my best results DBing when he has been jealous. In fact, H was ready to D until I started going out with friends - suddenly he "cared" again about me.
Maybe you shouldn't call him at all for a bit, let him make all the contact. Be a bit unavailable to him. Or are his insecurities that bad that it won't work?
