I haven’t been really actively online dating and all my apps deleted, except hinge where I got that one date. It’s been months I haven’t been active. I decided to go back active with a better mindset. I’m mostly attracted to the blue collar type. They aren’t even bad boys. They are regular men.
My “type” is a humble but confident man. Hard working, funny and fun.
Andrew, my must haves include a job, not live over an hour away, must be legally divorced. No separation and no recent divorce in a year or under. I’m flexible on living with parents depending on sitch, because the middle class is dying over here in my state. When you rent/mortgage/taxes are well over 2k a month which is nearly impossible to maintain in a single income household. I know I’m dying and i would do it if I could. I haven’t dated the “living in moms basement playing video games” type. Must be employed and must not be just freeloading. The ones I have dated who lived with parents are in the above situation I mention and have all been gainfully employed. When you become a single parent to a young kid too, I think it’s great to have extended family around to be of support. It’s great for thebkid to have family around. I wish I had it . I think they are pretty reasonable . I would like some similar hobbies , but there are no hard or fast rules about that.
Elbreth, I agree, if there ends up being no chemistry, it is OK for me to say that. I will be beyond respectful and I think everyone would understand. Hey, we may go out and I totally dig him , or he might meet me and not dig me!
