So I responded in more detail on your previous thread, but will say this...
Originally Posted by Dink
But im a little better today after all the stuff the past few days
When you spoke with her, even just in relation to the bank, you started to wonder where her head was and spun a little bit. Part of the reason we're saying "go dark" or "don't communicate" is for your own detachment. You noticed it in your statement above...you'll feel stronger as time goes on with less interaction with her. There's no reason you needed to respond to her or explain yourself about a bank password, or really anything at this point.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21