Sorry about the POOF! Some of the reasons we next people are random--like, a 3rd date with someone else goes well, or like when I ghosted a sexy attorney because I didn't feel fireworks during our first coffee date (SHE insisted on a coffee date whereas my other dates were up for fun! And I kinda forgot about her 2nd date request in the stream of incoming messages.) I doubt it was your photos, Ginger, or what you're offering as a partner which sounds like a lot!