Oh Stella, I’m so sorry. There isn’t much I can add on top of all the good advice you have received above, but I am here to say I am so sorry you have to face this level of deception. Hugs to you.

El

Me 52, H 56
T10 M7, 2nd MR for both
2 Step Sons (19 and 21)
BD: Fall 2020
D finalized: July 2022
XH Married AP soon after D day.