Gosh, having that connection and then silence does sound very frustrating. Especially after you sent a picture. It’s so easy to run all these possible ‘where did I go wrong’ sceneries in your head, but try not to do that. There is so much left unsaid in texting, and maybe he just wanted to avoid appearing to available…especially with how busy you appeared to be. It could be anything. And yes, if he does ghost you, then it means it wasn’t a good fit too. Try if you can to stay positive. But mostly just continue to be YOU.
I am also wondering if I should just move to a new state and completely start a new life. I’m about to move into a new apartment and honestly, I have wondered why I just didn’t get a storage unit and go off some place. Ha! But I also realize for me it’s not the best timing, but I am still thinking that a new start elsewhere may be a good idea…at least when I feel I can do it. When the divorce is over and I have a better idea of my finances.
Anyway, wishing you some more fun convos and interesting dates to come. Even if the process is frustrating, there can be some fun parts in the process as well. You are a wonderful, funny, smart, loving, and beautiful person. You may not like all the guys who come your way, but when it’s right, you will know and it will be awesome. Hang in there!
El
Me 52, H 56 T10 M7, 2nd MR for both 2 Step Sons (19 and 21) BD: Fall 2020 D finalized: July 2022 XH Married AP soon after D day.
