Yes, I think so, too. H is a really good guy--incredibly sensitive, and I think I wasn't as good at interpretting what he needed at times.

He called me at 5am this morning--man was I grumpy--to talk about the whole thing with roommate. I know he feels bad about taking away her home (man, I choked on that one). He said he told her he was heavily leaning toward moving in with his mom, and she got pretty upset. I guess it's hard for him to just come out and tell her he's made up his mind--I think he must be as afraid of confrontation as I am.

I started griping about her on the phone, then realized what I was doing. I left him a vmail apologizing for it after I headed to work, told him I was pretty sleepy and grumpy. We talked just a little while ago...he called me as soon as he woke up. Told me he didn't think I was so bad this morning. (Uh-huh...yeah, right.) That I had every right to be mad at him. I told him that didn't mean I had to keep running over and over and over the same conversation again!

Anyway, he's really eager to move in with his mom. I can't wait to move back to the south side (close to MIL and H ). We're both so impatient to move forward, even though this should all be happening next month.

He told me last night that it took him leaving twice to see what I always saw--that we should be together. The man is even talking about having a kid. This, from a guy who said he never wanted children! LOL! Okay, so he also said he would never get married, either...

My biggest concern is being able to keep this perspective I have found. I think my own shift in thinking has been what has really helped this M more than anything. I don't want his feeling guilty right now to lull me back into that sense of "I'm right!!" all over again.

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