((Stella)) - So sorry you had to learn this. From other things you've written, it's not necessarily a huge surprise although I'm sure it's a shock.
I hope you can make some time and energy for some self care. Look at the woman in the mirror and know You are Worthy.
As far as he goes, it's let go or be dragged.
This is going to take some time for you to to digest.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells