When we were talking last night she said, so you want the divorce now too? I said yes.
What was her reaction to that? And, how did the conversation go in general?
Most here would not recommend a relationship talk, and keep in mind now that you said that to her she can tell the kids it's something you both want as opposed to her choice. Maybe if you now truly are set on D it doesn't matter as much, but if it came out as a emotional reaction out of your pain with the situation you may regret saying it.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
