WW vs MLCer vs WAW

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I am focusing on myself and my kid who is a world to me.

Perfect! That's exactly what you should be doing.

Trying to GAL was surprised that it’s bit different after 41 soon 42 lol.

What are you GAL activities?

Detachment - have a hard time with it

That's understandable. Many people do. It's not easy and will likely take time.

5 Stages of grief - been 3 month from the D day can’t put a finger where I am at with that

My guess is denial or bargaining. I don't sense much depression or anger yet in your posts, and 3 months isn't much time for acceptance after 13 years of marriage.