my L is saying that all this crazy rush is because she wants to get married and/or pregnant.
She only knew this guy for less then a month tops before D me came up.
I have not read your thread in detail so I may lack specific context, but wanted to provide some clarification on this.
WAS take a lot of time thinking through their actions. When they are thinking through things, they often fake their actions and things seem good in the marriage. When they let the LBS know they want out of the marriage, they have thought through their decision and have complete confidence in what they are doing. They want to move full speed ahead on their new lives, which in turn means they want to rush closing the lid on their marriage. She may indeed be pregnant or want to get married, but I have a feeling the reason for the rush is the excitement she perceives in her new life in general i.e. a life without you.
