Steve It’s not research, it’s just something I saw with couple friends. It’s just they are with new partners that 180 degrees different from their Xs. Just kind of odd….
My wife started an affair now it’s progressed into a relationship with super nice guy, yet said that she will need to find another A..H… like me….
Meh. WAWs and WWs always think their LBHs are rear holes. As far.as OM, the grass is always greener... Until it isn't. I'm afraid you are barking up the wrong tree with this nice guy theory. If you have been a controlling jerk, then yes stop being that. But becoming a nice guy isn't the answer. You cannot nice her back to the marriage. It is a common mantra on this board. LBSs think after BD they have to become a Stepford spouse to win back their WAS. It doesn't work that way.
Jq, have you read Divorce Remedy?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
