Jq, you've mentioned a couple of times about becoming a nice guy. What do you mean by that?
It means treat your spouse as a boss. It seems like a trend these days women like more feminine type guys. Friend of mine left her “@ss h0le - H” for sweet nice guy.
Hmmm. This is the opposite of what we normally recommend. First of all, most people have the wrong idea of being a "nice guy". As if being nice somehow entitles them to certain things. I am sensing the idea that you think being a nice guy will mean your marriage would be save.
True nice guys are nice because it is who they are, no expectations. When you are nice for someone else's benefit, or because you have an ulterior motive, then that isn't being a nice guy, that is Nice Guy Syndrome. We sometimes recommend a book called No More Mr. Nice Guy, you may want to check it out.
The truth is, there is nothing nice about most "nice guys".
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
