I'm going to echo BL and Joseph about getting a free attorney session set up.
You have to gain: knowledge, security, a path forward if this heads to you getting D'd You have to lose: finances, time, security
I highly recommend choosing one that mentions mens rights, if you can find one. My free consult was with a female mens rights attorney and goodness was she knowledgeable on female nature, my nature, judges and the legal system. Worth every free penny.
If you both save your marriage, no one has to know you consulted the attorney. Maybe some day it will feel like a joke. "Cant believe I went to see a D attorney when things are so good now". If things go bad, you may wish you consulted one earlier. I misconstrued one thing from my attorney and it was a near 5k mistake.
It is hard as F to even think about searching for one. Even harder calling one. Driving there. Filling out paperwork. Writing my kids name on a paper stating Core versus Ex Core is one of the hardest things I've done. If a man in going to cry in his life, that's one of the times. After you get through that difficult part, you will see that it made you stronger and more resilient. Your marriage can perhaps be saved, you can also work on protecting your future simultaneously.
Wishing you all the best Dink.
Last edited by Core; 03/25/2212:37 PM. Reason: Spelling
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated
