WW vs MLCer vs WAW

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Jq25,

What do you mean by anger hasn’t hit yet? Could you elaborate on it?

I was referring to your anger towards your W for her actions. Think of the 5 Stages of Grief.

Most of us LBS are in Denial at first:

At first, I thought it was not a big deal, was trying to be reasonable

and then quickly move towards Bargaining:

and was trying to work it out LOL by being nice, a door mat as you will and followed by all other mistakes LBS make at first.

and many go into Depression (I certainly did for a few months).

But when things settle down and you're past the initial whirlwind the Anger can hit hard. I think right now you're still a bit shell shocked and haven't fully taken it all in. Don't be surprised if and when an intense anger towards W and OM pops up.

Keep in mind it's not linear so you might be feeling really strong one day and then something hits and you get angry the next and realize you haven't fully gotten over it. It's a process.