WW vs MLCer vs WAW

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Jq25,

Kid is bad I can feel it, but kid has the best dad. We like spending time together, now it’s more then usual.

That's awesome. Keeping crushing it as a dad. Your kid will know what's up, and appreciate it.

It’s a strange feeling after all the horrible things she’ve done I still love her.

Many of us understand that initial feeling, but trust me you'll think about it much differently as time moves on. My guess is the anger hasn't really hit yet. And it will. You'll know it when it does.

my L is saying that all this crazy rush is because she wants to get married and/or pregnant.

Listen to the advice my L gave. Leverage her desire to escape quick to a favorable divorce result. I'm sure your world is spinning and you want to hang on and not lose your family, but if she's ready to give away the bank to "get out"...let her do it. The longer it takes the more she'll wise up and potentially get into nasty negotiations. The best deals typically present themselves up front.

She only knew this guy for less then a month tops before D me came up. She is in complete denial about start of the affair, even when both of them in the same group of people they pretend as if they don’t know each other.

She'll likely in for a rude awakening, but that's not your problem anymore. She can only learn that lesson for herself. Do you know anything about the guy (married, kids...etc.)?

I did limit all communications with her, other then a kid and divorce related.

Good.

Working on myself, gym

Great you're in the gym. Keep it up. Make sure it's regular and you don't fall off. You're going to be looking/feeling pretty good about yourself if you do.