Sorry about the OM. I know that's an awful feeling. Unfortunately that's the case more often than not around here. Like SteveLW mention, as soon as I read your Part 1 post it screamed OM.
How old are you and your W? So you stayed in the house and she moved out? Where is she, an apartment? How's your 12yo doing?
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
