My concern is this, she thinks it would be better together, and that’s fine for me, and I worry that if I piss her off that the amicable divorce stuff we discussed last time and what we agreeed upon could be off the table and be more costly.
Last time we talked about a uncontested divorce which we basically agreed upon things between us and don’t need lawyers, since no minor children involved.
As I said before it is your situation, you get to decide. But trying to be nice to get a result often backfires. You need to do what is best for you and your kids, not try to nice her into things. A lot of LBSs that tried to be nice to get a better result in the D that it came back to bite in the backside. So just giving you some things to consider.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
