I totally agree with what you have said and i definitely will put all the recent hurt behind for now when telling the kids. They are my main priority going forward. As I have learned I can only control myself and my emotions. This will,be the second time in 3 years we will be telling them this news. Not that it changes anything but i have this pit in my stomach that she is going to hugely regret this When she has cleared from her fog…maybe im wrong just a feeling. I’m much stronger this go around than I was last time.
