So I texted her and said we need to tell the kids this weekend we are getting divorced and she said we can meet tomorrow to discuss how we want to do it. I then said, this would of been much easier Telling the if last weekend didn’t happen, to which she replied I know how you feel, I felt that way most of our marriage…. So this conversation when we meet tomorrow should be fun yes I know the hurt I caused in the past but the last five years were pretty good. She told me she wanted a divorce And I said ok, not knowing really about other man and as I wrote prior I lost it when I found her at Other man’s house. Her tone had no resemblance of any regret, or compassion what she did, just now I know how she felt. It’s just sad . I at least have shown compassion and apologized foe my hurt from way back. She is definitely a wayward spouse. Bitter to the end even though this was her Who did it
When you talk to the kids, keep your personal emotions and bias out of the picture. Resist the temptation to blame your WW or show her in a negative light. Focus on what is right for the kids and be in the right frame of mind.
