If you are only emotionally-connected to your spouse, then your relationship is only built on how good you make each other feel. If you are spiritually connected to your spouse, then your relationship is built on what is "good" within each of you.
This is the recent revelation of a woman who has not been inside a church except to attend weddings and funerals since the day she was confirmed and her mother let her quit.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
