Wow--just caught up! I see you've had some setbacks--she's having a physical affair (I'm sorry--that must be incredibly painful), in your anger you tried to control her and tell her what she "needs" to do (I know what I do when someone tries to make me do something), and now you (not a mental health professional) are focused on diagnosing her -isms.
Ready to dust yourself off and focus back on the GAL/Self-Improvement track to boost your chances both of moving on successfully solo, with someone else, or getting another shot with this lady if you want it?
We all have rough days, weeks, years. You've got this.
