Thanks. She stayed home school yesterday, took a little bit of a mental health day. I didn’t sleep well, but when I woke up, I said “I’m getting that girl her money” I texted her dad and told him this and we decided either him or his BIL ( a cop who lives in that town) was going to get it. my D woke up to a text from the woman asking for mine or my ex’s zelle to send the money. I didn’t have her answer it, I had my ex do it. She sent the money, but it hasn’t cleared. She did not utter one sorry to my D nor my ex. We went out to dinner last night and she was nice and chatty and we had a good time together .
I actually told my D not to communicate with her and block her number. I am not having my D communicate with an alcoholic. She isn’t a woman who just had too much to drink that night. She is a full blown alcoholic and at 14, I do not want my daughter dealing with her. Her aunt who posted my D’s advertisement in the town mom FB group sent a message to the moderator letting her know what happened and to remove the woman from the group so that some other poor young kid doesn’t have to deal with this. It is not a safe situation.
The good news is I am taking her for an interview tomorrow with someone her aunt knows because their sons go to school together. She’s excited for that.
Yesterday I had a sort of coworker burst in my office yesterday and say “ you are single, right?” I’m like “ it’s my scarlet letter” lol. I said that I am. She wants to set me up with her son . We are both 42 and divorced, no kids for him. She told me the town she lived in and then I put the name together and me and this kid went to school together from 1st-8th grade. Small world. She gave him my number. We shall see. Man, I really do need geography change
I had a guy I had dated and it didn’t work out come back for round 3. It didn’t work the 1st 2 times, and he wants to try a 3rd. I don’t think I can do it.
I was browsing online last night for potential places I want to move. It can’t come soon enough
