Need advice please

[BL42]

Dink,

The kids no nothing about my long ago affair, or her two in the past 5 years .

Do they have any idea your marriage is on the rocks, or will it blindside them? I agree w/LH btw...don't go broadcasting it. The truth will come out in time anyway.

Now I have this internal turmoil. Because of the way I handle things. I knew I shouldn’t off but anger took me over.

With all that being said Steve, everything else you said is correct and I know I definitely screwed up and regret it.

Everyone here has made mistakes in the way they handle their sitch. You can't change the past, you can only use it as a learning opportunity and adjust going forward.

I went it to the bathroom and the was a pill bottle open with pills spilled out on counter. I went back and said did you take a bunch a pills and she said don’t worry about . I was panicking ask her how many she took she would answer. I picked up her phone and she had sent the or four messages to different friends of her saying she loved them and to tell my kids I love them. I freaked and called the front desk and they came up

The Nashville story about the pills and hospital sounds extremely serious. That must have been scary. Did you and your W dig into why she tried to kill herself?

Well they finally came back and said they were going to allows us to leave but that she had to make sure to contact her counselor when we arrived back home…

Did she follow up w/a counselor? And, did she continue with one or did it just stop?

Work on yourself and become the best man you can be physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually.

Focus on what LH19 said earlier in the thread. What is your plan for focusing on yourself?