Dink - Do you kids know about the affair and/or potential divorce? They're older (25, 27, & 30) plus a grandkid so not clear if they're living with you and W or moved out?

SteveLW gives great advice. Read his post above a couple times.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21